It is so easy to get caught up in the busyness of our days that we let moments slip by.
Being intentional takes effort, takes time and does make a difference.
Most things are not rocket science; we are all capable of sharing with our children, but it does take purposeful thought and action on our part.
Here are a few easy ideas that might prompt you today:
Play a board game – let them pick a game, you set aside some of your time and enjoy some frivolous fun. To spice it up, have a snack that is often “forbidden” – can you say “ice cream cones” at 10 AM?
Pay a Compliment – pick something out today, very specific, that you can compliment your child on. Even better, how about making a list of 5 things you love about them and writing it on a note card for them to keep.
Share Eskimo kisses – kisses are good, but how about some nose touching to brighten the moment? As I teach my 14 month old what an Eskimo kiss is, I was brought back to the simple pleasure and laughter that it brings that differs from a normal kiss on the cheek or lips. (Those are good too!)
Sticky Notes – Draw a smiley face or short line on a sticky note and post it in a place your child will surely find it – unexpectedly! In their tooth brush drawer, inside their shoe, on the toilet seat or inside their school book. Get creative and have fun!
Bake Cookies – Even if you can’t make them from scratch it is okay! Honestly, I don’t think your child would care – they just want your time. Grab some readymade dough from the store and spend an hour scooping, baking, chatting and of course taste testing. You will never know what you get from that conversation!
Do you have any sure-fire ways to help your child feel special?
